Quit Bumming Around – Do Something – An Open Letter

When I went through some very dark times, seven years ago, I was given some of the most invaluable advice I’ve ever received,

“If you find yourself in a bad place, find someone in a worse place than you and do something to help them. Amazingly you both find yourselves in a better place.”

Dear Bummer, Party-goer, Generous-giver or Performing Artist,
If YOU can MAKE THIS HAPPEN please make contact and SHARE as widely as possible !!! This event is the opening weekend of the EDINBURGH FRINGE FESTIVAL – so if you’re a comic or a performing artist it’s your last chance to try out ‘work in progress’

I am helping Juliette Sheerin, a friend from my childhood, to organise a fudraiser for the Intensive Care Unit in Dundee. Her son Sean was invovlved in a 200ft cliff fall, sustaining multiple injuries, a number of weeks ago and has only just come out of a coma. She and her son live in Arbroath but they are both from Rochdale originally and her uncle is the councillor in Castleton, the ever popular Billy Sheerin. Not my politics but he’ll always get my personal vote!

Juliette is keen to “give something back” to the ICU who have been tremendous. I on the otherhand just need to keep busy and keep the ‘black dog’ at bay.

Arbroath100To raise even more money for the ICU in Dundee I have designed a greetings card based on my draft promotional poster. A limited edition of 100 of the cards will be numbered and signed by Juliette and Bobby Nitro and sold for £5 each. Packs of the greetings cards will also be available for sale, suitable as birthday, anniversary and get well cards – we hope that these will be available at the hospital too, who will be the beneficiary of all of the sales.

It is also intended that a small number of large posters are produced, to be auctioned on the night. These posters will be a greater asset to the cause and have added QUODOS if they are SIGNED by sportspeople, CELEBRITIES or even Bobby Nitro himself!

Arbroath OrtonTo keep the printing costs of the large posters to a minimum I propose a redesigned poster using only red and black ink – this might replace the original greetings card design too.

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The Best Things in Life …

You can view New Year’s Eve as amateur night, when those who have failed to make an appearance over the previous twelve months don their finest drip dry shirt and paint the town red or as a time to reflect.  Those who know me know that I get about a bit.  I get to mix with some of the most fascinating people and some of the more insane; you know the type, the sort of people who moan about Starbucks’ position on tax – whilst they’re sitting in a Starbucks, drinking Starbucks coffee.  Well I’ve been reflecting.

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I was sat in a park in Leeds with a former member of a Latvian all-girl rock group when she told me that the most important things in life aren’t things.  You are singing to the choir when you share such wisdom with me.  I know that it’s not rocket science but it is profound.  To you and I it may be obvious but for those who need a gentle nudge look no further than the latest research commissioned for the release of Life of Pi on DVD and Blu-ray in the UK. The message from the top 50 responses is crystal clear – concentrate on what you do have, rather than what you don’t.

  1. Stop worrying about money
  2. Stop worrying about what other people think
  3. Take two holidays a year
  4. Enjoy the little comforts
  5. Experience different cultures
  6. Work to live rather than live to work
  7. Pay off all debts
  8. Be true to yourself
  9. Concentrate on what you have instead of what you don’t have
  10. Use Money for fun rather than for a rainy day
  11. Make time for family and friends
  12. Try all types of food
  13. Find true love
  14. Travel to a least 25 foreign countries
  15. Go outside more
  16. Learn a new language
  17. Be well thought of by family and friends
  18. Help your family when they’re in need
  19. Lose 6 kg in weight
  20. Treat each day like it’s your last
  21. Visit all Britain’s historical landmarks
  22. Book an impulsive last-minute holiday
  23. Volunteer for a charity
  24. Take up a challenge
  25. Go on Safari
  26. Blow money shopping
  27. Learn a new instrument
  28. Been married for longer than 20 years
  29. Save money for your grandchildren to enjoy
  30. Start a family
  31. Earn more than your age
  32. Have a pet
  33. Drive a really fast car
  34. Travel alone
  35. Keep children on the straight and narrow
  36. Meet strangers
  37. Move away from home to an unfamiliar place
  38. Have a one night stand
  39. Pass your driving test
  40. Get a degree
  41. Rescue someone so you’re a hero for a while
  42. Date someone exciting but completely wrong
  43. Get a promotion
  44. Reach your career peak by 40
  45. Have an all night drinking session
  46. Perform something on stage in front of others
  47. Snog a stranger
  48. Plan a surprise party
  49. Embark on adrenaline packed activities such as bungee jumping
  50. Keep young by spending time with children

The Metro reports that the average person is able to tick off just eight of the fifty and that fewer than a quarter of us believe that we are living life to the full.  So snogging a stranger, having a one night stand and dating someone exciting but completely wrong may not be your thing but I for one was able to combine all three.

There is perhaps nothing new in the research; some of us realized a while ago that we are experience rather than stuff junkies but for those who wish to delve further and explore the ideas raised in the film the Damaris Trust offers an excellent Resource
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Aristotle pointed out that it is logically impossible for two contradictory beliefs both to be true at the same time but if we suspend logic momentarily we offer ourselves tremendous opportunities for self-discovery.  We are no longer inhibited by the labels which we and others apply to ourselves.

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Room With A View

A recent conversation about things that matter got me thinking and prompted me to dig deep and share a story, a fictional one of course.

Two men, one young and one old, shared the same hospital side ward. The older man was allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room’s only window. The younger man had to spend all of his time lay flat on his back recovering from a motorcycle accident. The men talked for hours on end.  The older spoke of his late wife, the son and his family that he was estranged from, his war time experiences in France and Korea and his adjustment to ‘civvy street’ and the monotony of a back room desk job.  The younger shared his stories of ‘nights on the town’, his girlfriends, his music, his love of travel and his anxiety over the the things he may never be able to do again and the places he may never see.

Every afternoon the older man, with his bed by the window, would sit up and pass the time describing all of the things that he could see.  He would describe in detail the pretty girls in their summer dresses, the birds returning to the nest with food for their young.  Every evening the younger man’s mother and father or some other family member or friend would make the long journey and visit.  The love was always there but the conversation though always polite were sometimes strained as he had to tell his visitors not to worry, that he was alright, that everything would be okay.  Inside he didn’t know if he believed it all himself, he felt angry, frustrated, tired.  He read that you never appreciate the freedom of movement until it is taken away from you, the freedom to get up and walk from one place to another, to stretch, to run, to leap.  The older man always slept through his roommate’s visits.  As the days turned into weeks and the weeks into months the young man lived for those one hour slots when his senses were exercised and his world came alive as the old man shared his view of the park, the trees, the sun shining on his face, the rain which sounded so refreshing, not like the drizzle that the young man remembered.  He heard an ice cream van once and the old man described the young lovers he could see sharing an ice cream, God he could taste it the image was so vivid.  The life, the colour, the fun, all of it out there beyond the window, all of it waiting for him.  Yes there were loves to be loved and a life to be lived.  He would ride that bike again, he would leave this bed and he would live a life.

He remembered the previous night’s routine of being woken up to take his sleeping tablet but this morning he came around more slowly than usual.  Usually he was shaken from his slumber by one of the morning rottweilers in green, given his meds and dabbed with a damp flannel but not this morning.  He strained to look sideways but could only see the top of the curtains drawn around his bed.  There were hushed voices and the noise of a trolley being wheeled away, then silence.  A long, long silence.  He waited until later in the day and when it seemed appropriate asked if he could be moved next to the window. The nurse checked and returned later with a colleague, happy to oblige.  Just one week later and he was free of his contraption, free of his shackles, free of the weights and pulleys.  Slowly, painfully, he propped himself up on one elbow to take in the view, to see the pretty girls, the birds in the trees, the office workers strolling in the park.

A wall, a bloody wall, a side on view of another building.  No park, no trees, no pretty girls.  Months in here and he’d never shouted.  Months in here and he’d always used the buzzer, waiting patiently, never shouting, “Nurse, nurse”.  He was shouting now, “Nurse, nurse”.  God they flooded in.  “So what happened, when did they build that?”  Later he lay there still, motionless, smiling, a tear rolling down his cheek.  They’d told him that the building had always been there.  When he told them what the old man had shared with him, what the old man had seem, they just looked at each other puzzled.  They just smiled.  The words echoed around his head, “He was blind”, the old man was blind.  He’d lost his sight as a young man in Korea and his wife who had cared for him had died six years earlier before he was diagnosed with his illness.  He’d fallen and broken his hip and not had a single visitor.  He’d had no-one but he’d given the gift of hope to the young man who shared his room.

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The origin of this story is unknown but I do know that when you have nothing to give, you can share happiness and you can give hope.  You can have every material possession that you ever needed or wanted but there are still those who will be richer.   If you want to feel rich, just count all of the things you have that money can’t buy.

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